8 Questions to Ask Someone Other Than “What Do You Do?”

Thanks to Dan Pink for sharing an article on Twitter that hits a topic I love to address.

A while ago I wrote: “What do you do?”, in which I noted:

“..when you meet people in the UK, the first question they always ask is “what do you do?”. I know this is relatively common as a question, but it is ALWAYS the first question that British people ask you. So often it seems to come from the social discomfort of actually having a REAL conversation with someone new.

Once that ultimate in small-talk has happened, they will often follow up with “so, are you busy?”. If the answers are a) {insert simple job title here}, then ) yes, really busy, then people relax and feel they’ve “ticked the box” of social niceties by putting you IN a box.

So, taking a lead from my mentor and guide Ed Percival, who always sought to make a positive impact from every interaction, I’ve started experimenting, so if you meet me for the first time, be prepared for an unpredictable response if you ask me “what do you do?”, which could include a really left-field question back to you.

Broadly, I’m really interested in what people feel passionate about, no matter what that is. Sure, it might be to do with their job, sure they may be busy with that. However, I choose not to box people in…